How to Stay Without Permarital Sex in a Relationship

1: Set Limits: when it get to initiating kissing or petting. don't! Wisely set Limits to expressions of affection. in a relationship,let the other person know how you feel about the matter . At the same time, don't give mixed signals, wearing tight, revealing your body or sexy clothes.these can give your friend the wrong message.

2: Avoid Tempting Situations: Avoid circumstances that could lead to temptation,such as being alone in a house,an apartment or a parked automobile with opposite sex, don't visit opposite sex alones. Stay  away from friends that always discuss sex. don't be exposed to unwholesome influences by watching pornographic films and pictures. Don't cry and expect pity from boys/girls.

3: Know Your: limitation: There are times when you may be more vulnerable to sexual enticement than at other times.For example, you may be discouraged because of some personal failure or a disagreement with your parents.whenever the case, be careful about the use of alcoholic beverages, under the influence of these, you can lose your inhibitions. "Wine and sweet wine are what take away good motive" (Hosea 4:11).

4: Say No and walk away:  If you don't walk away, you will be sorry! What can friends do when emotions escalate and you find yourself becoming dangerously initimate? You have to say or do something that breaks that mood.

5: Friendship with God: in your earthly relationship,try to create a solid relationship with God.be assured that with God's help and blessings,it is possible to say no to sexual immorality. Above all, developing close Friendship with God, knowing him as a real person with feelings, will help you avoid conducts that offended him.

6: Avoiding pitfalls in relationship: The Bible warns:"The heart is trickier than anything and in a desperate state;who understand it? (Jeremiah 17:9-10). One may feel a perfectly normal attraction towards someone of the same or opposite sex. But the more you are around each other, the greater the attraction, and this normal desire can lead your heart astray. You started out to do a little petting, and before you realize what is happening,you can't stop to avoid falling into sexual immorality yourself, you must lead your heart, rather than let it lead you.