Always use your mind before seeking for help. If you don't understand, pause a bit just to think things through.

Always use your mind before seeking for help. If you don't understand, pause a bit just to think things through.

Seeking for help is a rightful thing to do however it exposes our vulnerability, it can even make us become desperate at times. It is extremely important not to use only our emotions when seeking help but also use our minds. Whether is a financial help, or medical help, or spiritual help, or educational help, or business help, or marital help, or contractual help, or help in decision making. Plan in advance, strategize and weigh your options. Yes there are those kinds of help that need instant reaction, but it's not an excuse to not use your brain while you are conscious. In most cases, the main reason why we end up being in trouble or entrapped in bounding situations is because of the decisions we took when we sorted for help. Some people are in medical debts or were exposed to wrongful treatments or surgeries because of lack of proper consultations; while others find themselves liable to extreme financial debts because of not reading the fine prints or terms and conditions on contractual matters or were manipulated into thinking what they signed was a good deal or loan; others their bursaries or student loans are ridiculously absurd with unreasonable conditions; whereas others are being robbed of their rightful assets because of contractual agreements which they were not familiar with, whether you are being unlawful dismissed at work, divorced without being aware of your rights to owning possession, or being robbed and tricked by a service provider. We are all human and err sometimes, but we have to be aware of such mischief and not let our vulnerability cost us dearly when seeking for help. As much as desperate times calls for desperate measures, there are certain places, people or things you have to stay very far from.