No matter what you do, someone will have something negative to say.

No matter what you do, someone will have something negative to say. Try not to take it personally. 

People judge and criticize other people's lives when they're not happy with their own. Follow your heart. Do what's right for you. You don't need everyone's approval. When your tool is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail. As long as you think things must always be in a certain way, you will live in a frustration. Learn to be calm in difficult situations. When the mind calms down, the hearing becomes sharp, speaking becomes sharp, through every sense the activity becomes more perfect. Life has a middle name called "change", for it saying "No", it doesn't mean "Never", it just means "Not Now". If something is "Good" it doesn't necessarily mean it's "Right" for you. Be the best of what you are.